Dating 2 women at once
I have fun with both of them, and they both show signs of being a godly husband.I feel guilty going out with both of them at the same time, though.The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.I believe wisdom involves focusing on one man at a time. If you're thinking of having dinner with guy A on Friday, telling him you love him, and kissing him passionately before saying goodnight, and then doing all that again with guy B on Saturday, I'd say you're in for a heap of trouble. Remember that before they're a potential husband, they're your brother in Christ.
The good news: because of the broad scope of the question, every reader who is interested in deciding between two men can use this advice.
The guilt may be your conscience speaking; it's a voice worth heeding.
While it's possible to consider two men at once, it's not advisable for the reasons you've already raised: It's difficult to do it in a way that's honoring to them, which dings your reputation and leaves you feeling guilty. You've said it might be too early in the relationships to have to choose, and I suspect you're right.
What opportunities is God giving you to get to know these men? Treat each of your brothers — these two, as well as all the rest — the way you want to be treated. We’re a donor-funded ministry, and we rely on friends like you to help keep us going!
Last month, I wrote to two men that I was very interested in.